I’ve been thinking this week how internal growth and expecting a child share some similarities…
It is hard work and uncomfortable.
Facing things we want to change in our lives is a difficult process. It requires endurance, stamina, sometimes intense discomfort, and often a whole lot of aching.
It causes some sleepless nights.
Sometimes you just have to get up, pop on a movie or immerse yourself in a book and give yourself a break from the process, so you can rest through the sleepless times.
We aren’t always sure what to expect.
Changing yourself can affect your relationships and impact your subsequent life choices. Once you commit to the change, it is hard to predict what will happen, but chances are, it will be worth it!
It can be simultaneously anxiety provoking and exciting!
Internal growth can be freeing, can open our hearts and minds and bring greater joy and authenticity to our lives. But it isn’t a painless process. It is one that can create some anxiety, uncertainty, and confusion. At the same time, feeling yourself move past some difficult stages, toward the future, can create a sense of empowerment and hopefulness. Allowing all those feelings to coexist during the process helps us move through those moments where we may want to turn back or stuff something down again.
You can have a new life.
We all have the power to make changes inside ourselves. It isn’t always pretty and can be as scary as facing down childbirth, but in the end, it can be extremely rewarding.
I’m doing some intensive internal work right now and having been through this process of self-analysis, discovery, weeding, stretching, learning, and growing before, I know I won’t regret the effort. Though each labor is different, and we can’t predict the outcome of stretching ourselves, growth is empowering and life giving. It is what keeps us from stagnating inside and allows us to move past the internal barriers that seek to limit who we are.
So I’m going to face down my comfort zone, knowing that I’m in for some pain along the way. Because even if the experience isn’t perfect, I know what I really would regret is shutting down inside. I would regret missing out on the person I am meant to become. Instead, I know I’m going to wear those stretchmarks with pride on the flip side.
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